My brother, sister and I got together this weekend for a belated exchanging of Chanukah gifts. My sister and I had pulled together a gourmet gift bag of sorts for my brother -- funky sauces, Valrhona chocolate, a sake set. He then turned around and gave me . . . a gourmet gift bag. My brother and I got my sister an espresso machine, and my sister got me two books, one of which being Ruth Reichl's new one. Can you tell that the food-focus runs in the family?