My brother, sister and I got together this weekend for a belated exchanging of Chanukah gifts.  My sister and I had pulled together a gourmet gift bag of sorts for my brother -- funky sauces, Valrhona chocolate, a sake set.  He then turned around and gave me . . . a gourmet gift bag.  My brother and I got my sister an espresso machine, and my sister got me two books, one of which being Ruth Reichl's new one.  Can you tell that the food-focus runs in the family?